Sunday, November 29, 2009

Charlie and the Chocolate Factory...

As I sat and watched Willie Wonka tonight, I couldn't help but see the similarities between Charlie and our infertility. I know...this sounds REALLY weird, but stay with me :)

The Golden Ticket.
A Baby.

There is absolutely nothing more in this world that Charlie desires more than to receive a golden ticket.
There is absolutely nothing more in this world that we desire more than to have a baby.

As little Charlie receives a Wonka Bar for his birthday, he slowly begins to open it. Hoping to find that beautiful golden ticket under the wrapper. He opens the candy bar ever so slowly and then finally rips the last piece of paper off of the candy to reveal...no golden ticket.
We anticipate the day each month when it is time to take a pregnancy test. To reveal...no pregnancy.

Charlie watches in anticipation as one by one, the golden tickets are being discovered.
We watch in anticipation as one by one, our friends and family receive their baby miracles.

Although Charlie and his family have absolutely no money, his grandfather gives him his last coin to purchase another Wonka Bar. The anxiety reaches an all time high as Charlie and his grandfather open the candy bar. Unfortunately, Charlie's excitement comes crumbling down as yet again, their is no golden ticket to be found.
We use all of our extra money on either fertility medications or for the adoption process. After each stressful attempt, our excitement comes crumbling down as yet again, we are still not parents.

Charlie was walking home from school and as fate would have it, he comes across a $10 bill in the snow. He ran immediately to a candy store and used the money to purchase another Wonka Bar. Against all the odds, Charlie stares in amazement at the shiney golden ticket he finds inside the candy bar.
We pray every day that God will grant us our miracle of a baby.

I told you...Charlie and the Chocolate Factory is VERY similar to infertility.

7 comments:

Natasha said...

Your post has really touched me...I am literally crying. I am only a new follower but have read your older posts and so I feel that I know your story. Please just remember that this movie has a happy ending!
Blessings and best wishes, Natasha.

Life Happens said...

Great correlation. Now I want to watch the movie again (it's been years since I've seen it).

N and M said...

I knew we were supposed to meet. I come up with analogies like this for adoption, infertility etc. all the time. Enjoyed the comparison. As Natasha said though - your happy ending will come.

Kendra said...

Praying, praying, praying that next Christmas looks VERY different for you!!

Stuart and Sarah Creamer said...

Wonderful example! Praying for you!

waiting and wishing said...

What a great comparison. Isn't it funny how you can make just about anything about infertility at this stage in the game?!?! I just found your blog and have enjoyed reading about your journey.

Lori said...

You are right! There is a great comparison with the two!! Hopefully our golden ticket will arrive soon.